Ingabe Ucansi Lubangcono Njengoba Unodoli Eguga?

Masivume, sonke sinovalo lokuthi ukuphila kwethu okusondelene nonodoli wocansi kungase kuphelelwe yisikhathi ngemva kwesikhashana. Ngakho-ke, kungokwemvelo ukuthi ube nelukuluku, uma ungakhathazeki kancane, ngokuthi impilo yakho yocansi izoba kanjani nonodoli wothando - ingabe iba ngcono ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma kuzodingeka ufune ukunethezeka kwenyama kunodoli omusha. ? Ngemuva kocwaningo oluthile, sikwazile ukuthola impendulo ebambekayo nenemininingwane kulo mbuzo.

Ngokusebenzelana nabanye abanikazi bonodoli bocansi, sidwebe ukuqaphela okusikhanyisela ngokusondelana nempilo yocansi iyonke kanodoli wothando omdala. Manje, ngaphandle kokubambezeleka okwengeziwe, ake siqhubekele esihlokweni.

IZINTO ziba ngcono ngonodoli WOCANSI NGEMUVA kwesikhashana

Yiba nesineke

Umuntu angathi ucansi nonodoli wothando lufana newayini elimnandi. Kuba ngcono njengoba ikhula. Ukhululeka kakhulu ngonodoli wakho omthandayo njengoba uchitha isikhathi esiningi naye. Uthola ukuvula okwengeziwe kumlingani wakho onodoli, ophula amahloni. Ukusukela kuleli qiniso, ujwayela futhi unodoli wakho wocansi, okusho ukuthi kuba lula kuwe ukumnakekela nokumnakekela ngaphandle kokudinga usizo lwangaphandle.

Abathandi abaningi bonodoli baphinde bathi ngemva kwesikhashana, amalunga aqinile nezindawo zikanodoli ziyaxega, okwenza “izinto” zikhululeke kakhudlwana kubo. Kuphinde kukhulunywe ngabakhiqizi bonodoli ukuthi unodoli wocansi uzozizwa eqinile ezinsukwini zakho zokuqala. Kodwa ngemva kokuchitha ubusuku obumbalwa naye, lobu bunzima buyaphela.

UBULILI BUYA BUQHUBEKA KAKHULU NJENGOBA UTHOLA OKWENGEZIWE

Isipiliyoni siyisihluthulelo.

Sonke siye sasizwa isisho sakudala esithi, ‘Ukuzijwayeza kwenza umuntu aphelele.’ Umqondo oqondile uyasebenza nakunodoli wocansi. Ngokuphambene nalokho abaningi abangase bakucabange, kuthatha isikhathi ukuzivumelanisa nonodoli wothando omdala. Ngakho-ke, uma ucabanga ukuthi uzoyishaya ngonodoli wakho omusha wocansi ngokuchitha amahora ambalwa naye, kusho ukuthi uyashesha lapha. Kuthatha isikhashana ukuthi abanikazi bonodoli bazivumelanise namandla amasha. Ukuba nonodoli wocansi kuyinto entsha ngokuphelele, futhi uzodinga isikhathi esithile ukuze ujwayele, futhi yebo, sisho ucansi futhi. Ukusondelana nonodoli wocansi kudinga okuthile, kulungile, ukuzijwayeza okuningi. Kumele uqinisekise ukuthi "imibono yakho eseduze" ayilimazi unodoli. Kufanele futhi uthuthukise indlela yakho ukuze uthole injabulo ephelele kulwazi lukanodoli wocansi.

Njengoba ukhula ngolwazi nomlingani wakho onodoli, uzobona ushintsho oluhle empilweni yakho yocansi. Uzoqaphela ukuthi izinga lokusondelana linyukile ngonodoli wakho njengoba usuyazi into oyenzayo.

UDINGA UKUNONGA IZINTO NGESIKHATHI NGESIKHATHI

Zama izinto ezintsha.

Manje, ake sibheke ngakolunye uhlangothi lwemali. Nakuba kuyiqiniso ukuthi abanikazi bonodoli bathola ukunethezeka eduze nonodoli babo bocansi njengoba isikhathi sihamba, kuyiqiniso futhi ukuthi abaningi babo babona ukulahlekelwa uthando nesasasa ocansini. Thina bantu sihlala sibheke okuthile okusha okungashukumisa izinzwa zethu. Ukwenza into efanayo ngokuphindaphindiwe kungayishintsha ibe umsebenzi oyisicefe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi i-trophic kangakanani. Okufanayo kungenzeka nempilo yakho yocansi ngonodoli wothando. Uzoqala ukuphelelwa isithakazelo kuye, futhi ungase uzwe ukuthi umlingo usuhwamukile ngokuphelele. Lokhu kuyinto abanikazi bonodoli abaningi abaqala ukuzizwa ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi esiningi nabalingani babo abathandekayo babodoli.

Uma ucabanga ukuthi ukushintsha unodoli wakho kuyindlela efanele yokuphuma kulesi sithukuthezi, uphokophele endaweni engafanele. Awudingi ukushintsha unodoli wakho, iphethini kuphela. Ukuchaza kabanzi, udinga ukunonga impilo yakho yocansi ngokudlala indima ethile, ama-foreplays, nezingubo zokugqoka, bese uthola umbono. Ungenza izinto zibe kinky ngokuzama i-BDSM ne-anal. Isisho esibalulekile lapha sithi -phula isimiso.

ISIPHETHO

Wonke umuntu othanda unodoli unelukuluku lokwazi ukuthi izinto zizohamba kanjani ngonodoli wabo wocansi. Lapha, sinikeze ukuqaphela okumbalwa okuchaza ukuthi impilo yakho yocansi izohamba kanjani ngonodoli wakho wothando. Ngokwengxenye enkulu, ucansi luba ngcono ngemva kwesikhashana ngonodoli wocansi. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi uthola ulwazi oluthe xaxa futhi unethezekile eduze nonodoli wakho omthandayo. Nokho, kukhona elinye icala kule zibalo. Ngemva kokuchitha isikhathi eside nonodoli wakho, ungase ube nomuzwa wokuthi injabulo iyancipha kancane kancane. Kodwa ungakwazi ukulungisa lesi simo ngokuba kinky futhi udale ngemibono yakho yocansi. Odinga ukukwenza nje ukuzama into entsha ngonodoli wakho wothando, kanye nebhingo! Kubuye kube kuhle futhi.

Sekukonke, impilo yocansi enodoli wothando omdala iba spicier ngemva kwesikhashana. Impilo yakho yezocansi ishisa kakhulu njengoba uthola ubumnandi eduze nonodoli wakho.