Ukuba nethoyizi locansi noma unodoli wocansi kwakungabukeki njalo. Eqinisweni, amathoyizi amaningi ocansi emakethe ngaleso sikhathi ayeklanyelwe amadoda. Nokho, izinto ziye zashintsha kancane kusukela ngaleso sikhathi. Njengoba ubona, amathoyizi ocansi aqondene nabesifazane avame kakhulu emakethe kunamathoyizi ocansi aqondene nabesilisa.
Lezi zinto zithandwa kakhulu. Uma ubhekisisa kahle, uzobona ukuthi onodoli namathoyizi ocansi, ikakhulukazi, amukelwa kahle ngumphakathi.
Abekho nje onodoli abadala abablonde blonde abangamadoda kodwa nonodoli bangempela noma bothando abaklanyelwe ngokukhethekile abathengi besifazane.
Ngakho-ke, yini echaza ukuduma konodoli bothando abagxile kwabesifazane, bekhwalithi ephezulu? Yini eyenza amantombazane akhethe onodoli bocansi? Izisusa zimi kanje:
1. Banemicabango Yocansi
Noma ngabe umuntu ufuna ukukukholelwa, izintokazi bezilokhu zisebenzisa amathoyizi ocansi. Wonke umuntu ufuna ukwazi okwengeziwe ngobulili bakhe. Kodwa-ke, amafu amaningi abangelwa ukukhathazeka mayelana nokukhulelwa, ukungena ebudlelwaneni obubi, noma ukuthola i-STI. Abesifazane nabo bashaya indlwabu, futhi onodoli bocansi bayinketho ekahle yokwenza lokho ezingeni eliphezulu kubo.
2. Onodoli Ababona Ukwahlulela
Lapho owesilisa noma owesifazane eqala ukuqomisana futhi eba nolwazi lwakhe lokuqala locansi, kuhlale kunokwesaba ukuzizwa ukhathazekile, ukusilela kulokho okulindele, nokwahlulelwa ngomunye umuntu. Kulapho kungena khona onodoli bocansi ukuze basize owesifazane azizwe ekhululekile ukuhlola amandla akhe futhi athole ukuqonda ukuthi ukuhlangana ngokocansi kwangempela kungaba njani.
3. Gcwalisa I-Fetish Yakho
Ingabe isithandwa sakho asizimisele ukwehla phansi futhi sikunikeze umuzwa wokugcina wocansi wokukhothwa? Ingabe akazimisele ukufeza amaphupho akho okugqilazwa isikhathi eside? Uyafuna ukwazi ukuthi kunjani ukulala nomunye umuntu wesifazane uma ungakwazi ukukucela kowakwakho? Onodoli bocansi bakuvumela ukuthi ufeze amaphupho akho angenangqondo nezifiso.
4. Yiba Nomaqondana Oke Wamcabanga
Wake wafisa ukuxoxa nomodeli, usaziwayo, noma omunye oshisayo? Noma ingabe unamaphupho ngokulala nomuntu wohlanga oluthile? Onodoli bocansi, nokho, bavumela ukwenziwa ngokwezifiso, ukuze ube nanoma yini ofuna ukwenziwa, ukuthuthwa, nokuboniswa phambi kwakho.
5. Bulala Isithukuthezi Sakho
Mayelana nemisebenzi yabo, abesifazane bathanda ukuvelela njengamadoda. Lokhu kungase kubangele abanye abantu ukuba balahlekelwe ukugxila ekuzibophezeleni kobudlelwane bomuntu siqu. Nokho, kunezikhathi lapho umuntu efisa ukuba yedwa ukuze anelise izifiso zakhe zobulili ngejubane lakhe nangemibandela yakhe. Esikhundleni sokuhileleka ebuhlotsheni obunezinkinga, obudla isikhathi, noma obuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo, ungaba nonodoli wothando abe umngane wakho othembekile.
6. Spice Up Life Yabo Yocansi
Akubona abantu ngabanye kuphela kodwa futhi imibhangqwana ingaba namaphupho angavamile. Ungakwazi ukuletha ucansi noma unodoli wangempela empilweni yakho ukuze usebenze njengenhlansi yokuvuselela impilo yakho yocansi ngaphandle kokuzizwa unecala noma ukukhathazeka ngokukopela. Ungaba nanoma yimuphi unodoli wocansi wesifazane noma wesilisa omfunayo, owenziwe ngendlela oyifisayo ngokuvumelana nentando yakho kanye nozakwenu.
Isiphetho:
Uma ungowesifazane ucabanga ukuthola unodoli wocansi, ungabi namahloni; phuma uthenge lowo nodoli we-silicone noma we-TPE ocansini
thina.
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